tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post4758724378984013560..comments2024-03-18T08:00:48.931+11:00Comments on The Vince Review: Reading with DepressionPaula Vincehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-89203904032271180602024-01-09T16:23:45.769+11:002024-01-09T16:23:45.769+11:00Yes and Yes! Children's books and Goudge both ...Yes and Yes! Children's books and Goudge both very therapeutic (along with reading in general). Re pills - a favourite doctor of mine way back once told me that in his opinion, he didn't think I'd ever need them, as my downs seemed to be more cognitive/thought provoked. I think he was right, although I can't say the same for everyone. Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-56060984709183122012024-01-09T13:54:32.648+11:002024-01-09T13:54:32.648+11:00I am finding that reading my favourite children’s ...I am finding that reading my favourite children’s books again lifts my spirits. I have also turned to Elizabeth Goudge again recently. Pills would just worry me because of the side-effects. Reading is a huge help, though!Violahttp://www.bookaddiction.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-61849511854077090322016-09-25T14:04:51.816+10:002016-09-25T14:04:51.816+10:00Hi Cristina,
I haven't read it yet, although I...Hi Cristina,<br />I haven't read it yet, although I've come across it and been attracted to the cover. Since you guys have recommended it, I think I'll get hold of it. I've only heard mostly good things about it. Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-50925422798718110732016-09-25T10:51:53.690+10:002016-09-25T10:51:53.690+10:00I agree with you. Whenever I need a lift, I look f...I agree with you. Whenever I need a lift, I look for a book. Funny movies also do the trick. Have you read Furiously Happy? I actually handed that one to my daughter who has been in a dark place (possibly puberty related) It helped immensely, if only because it gave us something to laugh about together and made talk about depression seem easier. She's since read Jenny Lawson's first book, Let's Pretend this Never Happened. It's on my list. jugglingpayneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10921293051956441475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-44343910317232213822016-09-03T17:00:50.958+10:002016-09-03T17:00:50.958+10:00Hi Rose,
Wow, do you still have a stack of those. ...Hi Rose,<br />Wow, do you still have a stack of those. I used to love them too, as a kid, but my pile has long gone. I'm not sure where they went. But you're right, even though they're short and sweet, they have good plots complete with themes and story arcs. Funny, I was just talking to another friend about the beauty of comics and graphic novels, which she has actually written.Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-28231515606727336662016-09-03T16:57:43.814+10:002016-09-03T16:57:43.814+10:00Hi Rosie,
It's a good addiction to have, and o...Hi Rosie,<br />It's a good addiction to have, and one which I share :)<br />I've come across people called 'book apothecaries' or some such term, who do what we do for a profession! Imagine people coming to you and willing to pay for your book recommendations. I can totally understand how it would work though.<br />You've reminded me that when I was younger, and walking home from the library, I used to take the books out of my bag and start reading while I was walking. Those were the days.Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-20222641199604888652016-09-03T15:35:39.580+10:002016-09-03T15:35:39.580+10:00I agree. Reading uplifts my soul. But I noticed th...I agree. Reading uplifts my soul. But I noticed that when I'm really down (and I have suffered from diagnosed depression at times in my life), I go back to reading Archie, and Betty and Veronica comics. I read them a lot as a child, and they always delighted me. They are short, entertaining, and uplifting. And possibly a short and sweet alternative to reading. Rose Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00916783669139743112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-64330422976298946202016-09-02T17:02:00.025+10:002016-09-02T17:02:00.025+10:00you know Paula, I absolutely adore reading- in fac...you know Paula, I absolutely adore reading- in fact some days I think I may have a serious addiction to reading. I simply must have books on the go, with some waiting to read. My husband cannot understand it.<br />My point of this sad addiction, is that I am forever suggesting books or offering my books to others to read. <br />If someone is feeling sick or sad or anything... I have a book to remedy the situation.<br />Just lately, in my fifty-seventh year (did I just admit my age???), it has occurred to me that others may not share the thrill of a book to read.<br />When I go to the library, it takes all my will power not to sit and start the book immediately.<br />So I do realise what you are doing in offering 'book' advice. <br />And you have given me many suggestions to add to my list of books to read as well, thanks.<br />Gosh, I do sound like I have a problem. Hmmmm.<br />rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00303079027488437875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-82671840394192016302016-08-31T21:17:09.994+10:002016-08-31T21:17:09.994+10:00That's great news. I hope you'll all be ve...That's great news. I hope you'll all be very happy. I'm sure you'll notice the lifestyle differences straight away. You'll surely also have some moments of asking, 'Why are we doing this?' We all do! When you remember that there are as many different methods of homeschooling as families doing it, that helps the moment to pass. I'll be interested to keep up with how you're going. Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-27143889871367098222016-08-31T14:09:19.126+10:002016-08-31T14:09:19.126+10:00Thanks for your comment, Paula. I didn't at al...Thanks for your comment, Paula. I didn't at all think you were coming across mean or anything :) I think I did understand the spirit of what you were saying and books are definitely wonderful places to go and relax. They are friends when friends are hard to find and places to go when you cannot escape. I cannot imagine a world without books :) So I did get what you meant. Love to you and the family.<br />You might be interested to know that my husband and I have also decided to homeschool out two youngest children (5yrs and 10yrs). We are very excited and a bit nervous about it. We will start next year at the beginning of the year. That gives me time to plan and get ready for them. Thanks for your open discussions here on the blog. Blessings to you xTabitha Birdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08196816108272065974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-87071584958381971572016-08-31T10:20:41.601+10:002016-08-31T10:20:41.601+10:00Hi Tabitha,
I understand the distinction you'r...Hi Tabitha,<br />I understand the distinction you're making here. Well, not through experience, but the way you've described it here. I'm so sorry those low periods of your bipolar disorder are a way of life for you. I'd hope at this stage that I'd be one of the truly sympathetic friends, and wouldn't offer reading therapy alone as a fix-all. If the start of this blog post came off sounding a bit snarky, I didn't intend it to.<br />You are clearly a true book lover, both reading and writing, and if reading therapy was a foolproof cure-all, it would definitely work for you! Same for some of my other friends who have said similar things. So in turn, like you, I hope I'm not coming across as being mean.<br />I'm really glad you took the time to leave this comment, as that's what blog discussion posts are all about. It's given me plenty of extra food for thought too. We who haven't experienced the same thing can't help being limited in our thinking, even when we do mean well. Perhaps I should qualify in this post that reading therapy is something some readers might find helpful some of the time :) Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-20259883641133471072016-08-30T22:00:15.697+10:002016-08-30T22:00:15.697+10:00I'll weigh in on this one. I have bipolar 2. A...I'll weigh in on this one. I have bipolar 2. A lesser known form of bipolar disorder. Apart of the illness is crashing and soul destroying depression otherwise known as 'lows'. I experience them often and they can last for months. Since being on meds they tend to last no more than five weeks. But 5 weeks is seriously a long time to feel terrible. <br />I am also an avid reader and a writer. Here's the thing, when I am really low I cannot read. It's actually not possible. My mind basically short circuits and I have to keep reading the thing over and over to try and understand what I have read. I can't explain it well. If you haven't been there, it's hard to paint a good enough picture. But basically the words jumble, the plot is hard to follow and I am just so incredibly drained I put the book down. <br />So, to tell you the honest truth there will be people for whom reading when low or depressed will not work. <br />I also feel quiet strongly about people offering me suggestions about how to cope with my illness. Unless they themselves have bipolar 2 and understand what I am going through and have found something that works, I am really not interested. I am not being mean, but unless I am actively asking for suggestions on what to do when I am low, I would prefer people just make me a cuppa and be my friend. Just sit and listen to me, or be there while I cry. Truth is I (and many of us with mental illness) feel terrible that we can't just beat this thing in our head. That we can't perk up and get on with it. That we can't just go read a good book and lift our spirits out of a really bad low. And I am often bombarded with wonderful and well meaning people telling me to do this or that is hopes it will fix me or help. There really is no fix. And believe me when I say I have tried everything. Every known medication. Every therapeutic devise. I've done it. Sure, I have found some things that help. Some things that can make the lows less lonely or less likely. But I CANNOT actually prevent myself from being low. Nor can I shorten the duration of that low when it comes. I can do everything right from diet to exercise and all the way back again and still have a massive low period. <br />So, no. The book thing doesn't always work. Not for me anyway. My mind, which is required for things like comprehending and decoding text, is overloaded just trying to remember to breathe and get up in the morning. I am so glad that reading has helped you, though. I am one of those people for whom it won't work. Sadly.Tabitha Birdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08196816108272065974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-27518295162842668132016-08-30T15:12:33.634+10:002016-08-30T15:12:33.634+10:00Hi Jo'Anne,
I've been keeping a little boo...Hi Jo'Anne,<br />I've been keeping a little book review journal too, because I know I have to write impressions when they come. My memory has proven to be not as good as I think it is, when it comes to thinking, 'Oh yeah, I'll mention that in my review.' I'm glad you're finding it works for you too. And yeah, if you do try to get hold of the four I mentioned, I hope you'll find they work for you too.Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-44747684681231843272016-08-30T15:08:36.814+10:002016-08-30T15:08:36.814+10:00Hi Carolyn,
It is wonderful when such things happe...Hi Carolyn,<br />It is wonderful when such things happen, and novels become therapeutic as well as entertaining. Even better to think that therapy and entertainment can be part of the same medicine. Thanks for sharing your experiences. And I agree, that stories like Georgette Heyer's regency romances can be just the thing because we know what to expect, and it's just the boost we need. Paula Vincehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079952414990463270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8533677737021490096.post-81135178672256040332016-08-30T10:39:55.926+10:002016-08-30T10:39:55.926+10:00Yes! Reading can be therapeutic, and good writing ...Yes! Reading can be therapeutic, and good writing can challenge us & lift us out of our circumstances. I remember reading a Christian romance that had a really honest portrayal of a sisterly relationship- that really challenged me with my sister! Another had a character whose portrayal of forgiveness was another chance for some soul searching. When I'm feeling the need for some extra joy, I (re)read Georgette Heyer's Regencies - so witty, so much fun :)Carolyn Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04180744278101977974noreply@blogger.com